What Is A Player?
A player is usually a man who has multiple romantic love relationships with women but allows each woman to believe that the relationship is exclusive.
IE: He is playing the field.
Players will allow women to believe that the relationship is exclusive in one of the following two ways or a combination of both:
- Lying
- Manipulating
The Liar - Direct Verbal Lies
The Liar Tells women to their face that they love them, making plans for the future, telling them that they are the only one etc.
Some Liars do not feel comfortable telling women that they love them so they take the pressure of themselves with lines like:
This feels so right, but I'm not sure this is what I want.
In many cases, The Liar will have a verbal exclusitivity agreement with each woman which states that both parties will be loyal to one another.
Usually, The Liar will only lie to women who he cannot manipulate. This is because he has encountered a stronger personality who is not embarresed to set rules and ask direct questions.
The Manipulator - Lies By Omission
Allowing women to believe all the things The Liar would normally tell them with a clever twist - Without ever talking about it.
The manipulator will detect feelings of attachment from his women but will just play along without clearing things up.
The Manipulator does not make an exclusitivity agreement with his women. For this reason, if he is ever caught, he will plead to be innocent of any wrong-doing.
Final Tips
Woman Players - Women can also be players and can do all things men players can do.
Players Agenda - The agenda of a player can be sex, money or both.
Genuine Relationships - A person who is genuine will not violate the boundaries and rights of others by manipulating or lying. If any messages are received which are not aligned with their intentions, they will clear the air up immediately.
What Goes Round Comes Round
The trained mind knows that every transaction must benefit every person who is in any way connected with the transaction, and any attempt to profit by the weakness, ignorance or necessity of another will inevitably operate to his disadvantage. - The Master Key System Part Four
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